...And it Sucks!
I am not sure if I agree or not yet. I’m one of those strict top fewllos, but it is only because in those times in my life when I’ve had my partner penetrate me, I’ve never enjoyed it. I’ve never had a penis up there, but I’ve been fingered during sex by more than one partner and have had it done both gently and a bit more aggressively. Is it not possible that the g-spot just isn’t universal? The reason I am not sure if I agree with you or not is because I do not know if you would count my experiences as enough for me to know what I enjoy and do not enjoy for sex or if you feel that only actual penile penetration can adequately fulfill your requirement.